If A Man Pulls Away, Don't Do This

Let's say you're dating someone and everything seems to be going well until they suddenly start acting distant or displaying disapproval without explanation.

When that someone suddenly pulls away, ignores your messages, or treats you unkindly, it's not a reflection of your worth.

It's important to recognize this truth and use it as valuable information to protect yourself.

In such situations, the common tendency is to internalize their behavior and make it about ourselves.

We start questioning our value, our desirability in the dating world, and come up with irrational conclusions like, "If only I were different or better, they wouldn't be acting this way."

But that is a destructive pattern that lacks self-love and compassion.

It's called introjection, where we project our own qualities onto others and assume their actions are a direct reflection of who we are at our core.

Recognize when you're falling into this trap, take a mindful pause, and ask yourself, "What if this has nothing to do with me?"

Shift the responsibility back where it belongs—on the other person's side of the fence.

Remember, their behavior is a reflection of their own inner world, not a verdict on your worth.

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