Rescuer or Doomed Lover? The Truth About Damsels in Distress

Men often find themselves drawn to the role of the knight in shining armor, driven by a deep desire to rescue a damsel in distress.

This archetype gives them a sense of purpose, a direction for their relational endeavors.

The damsel, on the other hand, carries a belief that she is incapable and inadequate, fueling her need for rescue.

It's a perfect match for the codependent rescuer, who seeks to be the hero due to his own insecurities and the need for validation.

This dynamic sets up a game with apparent rules for the guy to follow in order to win her over.

Such a relationship becomes more of a project than a genuine connection, one-sided and destined for heartbreak and resentment.

The guy never gets to retire his hero persona, and the relationship lacks the essential reciprocity and emotional depth required for true intimacy.

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