You Reject Yourself Before Others Reject You

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Being too nice in relationships can actually be a form of self-rejection. When we constantly put the needs and wants of others before our own, we are essentially rejecting who we are and what we stand for.

One reason why people may engage in this behavior is that they have low self-esteem and believe they do not deserve to be treated with respect and kindness. By being overly nice, they hope to gain acceptance and love from others. However, this behavior often leads to being taken advantage of and not having one's own needs met in the relationship.

Another reason for this behavior is a fear of confrontation or rejection. By being too nice, individuals may avoid expressing their own needs and opinions for fear of upsetting the other person or ending the relationship. This can lead to feeling resentful and unhappy in the long run.

Additionally, being too nice can also prevent the development of healthy boundaries in a relationship. We can only create healthy and fulfilling relationships when we are able to communicate our own needs and desires effectively, and when we're comfortable setting and maintaining boundaries. However, constantly putting the needs of others above our own can prevent the development of such communication skills and boundaries.

It is important to note that being kind and compassionate is a positive trait, however when we prioritize the needs and wants of others above our own, it becomes a negative behavior that can lead to self-rejection. As a result, it is important for individuals to practice self-compassion and prioritize their own needs and wants in their relationships.

To sum up, being too nice in relationships is often driven by low self-esteem, fear of confrontation and lack of healthy boundaries. It can lead to feelings of resentment and unhappiness and the rejection of self. It is important to strive for balance, practice self-compassion and prioritize oneself in the context of relationships.


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